A Porn Star Is A Woman Of Substance?

A Porn Star Is A Woman Of Substance?

I would not have talked about Sunny Leone had she been not portrayed as woman of substance by the mainstream media. This so-called successful lady which became part of “Big Boss” show made it very clear that prostitutes are a different breed than the porn star.

In fact, an impression was generated that the choice made by her was a dignified one that reflected her attitude to move against the set patterns. ” My parents soon realized it and respected me for who I am and my decisions. So there was never any question of being disowned by my family.”

She also lambasted on those who had no clue about this subtle difference between the prostitute and porn star! “I think India doesn’t have an adult entertainment industry – that’s why people have no idea what it is. I ran a company that took care of the deals I sealed with firms to sell and share my content online and to other media. Running a company was hard work. I’d work for about 60-70 hours a week. It wasn’t a party. I have only one partner. So that way, I’m very restrained in the real world.”

Anyway, I need to present the excerpts from a conversation that I had with some of my friends in media world. It’s full of insights and interesting revelations, which will let you know all the changing landscape of media world in India and elsewhere.

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Arvind K.Pandey:

The moment we are going to oppose such people we would be first labeled regressive and then afterwards we would be asked to treat them and their profession as dignified !!!

Nishant Mishra, Translator associated with reputed government run institution :

This is a matter of choice, and I must say that I believe that human beings make a lot mistakes when they choose what they want to be or what they want to do. In my unbiased opinion, one’s choice of becoming a pornstar is not dignified. There’s no dearth of options if one sees things with insight.

Jayanta Bhattacharya, Media Professional:

It takes great courage to be a woman like her, and even greater courage if she is from a conservative god-fearing conservative Indian family. She is the ultimate example of female self-empowerment only next to Shakti.

Arvind K.Pandey:

I need to thank Nishant Mishra for not becoming too conscious a soul to find merit in such choices. And yes Jayanta , it was quite obvious that you were going to defend her choice. Considering your fierce defence of her decision, I am but compelled to say that what she is doing is indeed worth of admiration and emulation as well. If likes of her fail to emerge as porn star, the media across the world would lack the right ingredient to make the newspaper salable. The editors across the world would turn jobless if there lacks the opportunity to present such hot stuff. The emergence of porn star makes the media not altogether devoid of relevance. Anyway, I am not interested in making my friend Jayanta unemployed by denying him the opportunity to sensationalize such affairs.

Nishant Mishra:

If things remained the same we would soon witness two other new shows:

1. Search for Ultimate Pornstar of India and 2. Who Wants to Become a Pornstar

Arvind K. Pandey:

…. And then Media will promote the whole contest and the winner as the surest way to ensure male/female empowerment !!

Jayanta Bhattacharya:

The reality is that she is beautiful, artful lovemaker, and who knows what a man needs and wants. She is a rich businessman, owner of enterprises, top model and a world darling. There is no doubt that any man, including yours truly would be proud of a wife such as her. She is Goddess Durga to me whom the Mahisasur in me desires, but can never get. That’s it for me, that’s it for Arvind Pandey and that’s it for Nishant Mishra.

Rohit Mehra:

Jayanta bhattacharya you are no more than a fungus in some uncleaned overused overflowing sewer full of scum. Someone who assumes the sewer you live in is the whole of Brahmaanda (universe) and therefore starts advocating the ill as a genuine good. Though your ignorance can be a reflection of ur upbringing, it still can not be accepted as a reason of your innocence. Comparing Goddess with a porn star is not only a sign of sick mentality but also vehemently opposed.this should not have been done .

Now to clear your hugely discoursed perception and to widen your scope of thinking. Even the womanhood of your own house and relatives would be very famous if they follow the footsteps of Carren Malhotra. But would you want this to happen? And if the answer is in affirmative then why are you not encouraging them by telling them how successful a career as a porn star could be? The answer is very simple: Successful and desirable does not always mean righteous and genuine. It is one thing to attract some one with your beauty and art and it is totally other to expose a being to sinister and dark fantasies.

Sex is no more a taboo in this wonderful and matured land of the Kamasutra but spreading and subliminal promotion of porn is immensely adverse to family values and the very structure of family itself. Respect womanhood as she is the nucleus of a family,as properly maintained family leads to a strong society which ultimately gives rise to a great nation.

Arvind K.Pandey:

I agree in toto with Rohit. That’s the real dilemma. The same rules which likes of Shobha De or , for that matter any other feminists preach attains a different meaning in their own lives. Shobha can glorify lesbianism in her own books but I am sure she would be the first one to enter in fierce opposition if her own daughters turn into one such lesbian character found in her novels!!

My only objection with this news report is that okay you might see attaining porn stardom a big cause of celebration but please don’t preach or make a fuss about it publicly. Is this statement of hers such a big thing that it finds a great space in all major news dailies? What’s the point in seeing that as a big career which this porn star has implicitly tried to suggest?

Arvind K. Pandey:

Please don’t misrepresent us Jayanta !! Neither me nor Nishant bhai is ever going to feel anything great in having a porn star as wife. Both you and Nishant Bhai, in any case, can never dream of her having as wife since as far as I know you both are already married!!. Or else, I am sure I am going to see another pic of husband bashing at hands of wife in newspapers!! I wish that husband bashing news gets edited by Jayanta!!

As far as I am concerned I would be more happy to have a good looking girl with decent values as a wife than marrying a porn star- a rich businessman, owner of enterprises, top model and a world darling :-)

By the way, if you have left out any epithets in favour of this porn star then please go ahead use that also. You will not get another opportunity to carve more epithets :-)

“She is Goddess Durga to me whom the Mahisasur (demon king) in me desires, but can never get.”…Waah Jayanta bhai kya line hai ? (That’s a great line) Lage rahiye. ( Keep the same spirit). Don’t be that frustrated. Get divorce first and then concretize your dreams.

Jayanta Bhattacharya:

And, what are you Rohit Mehra ? Chief of Vice and Virtue Police? I am at least being frank in my opinions. However, hypocrites like you whose loathsome background and upbringing is exposed by the language you use are losers who can’t have it this way or that way. Shame on you.

Arvind K.Pandey:

This is very interesting discussion. I hope the warriors of words involved in this war of words would not make personal remarks!! Let’s not kill this lively discussion with personal remarks. Let’s target the issue than targeting the person..

By the way, my adorable Jayanta bhai, I appreciate your ability to carve funny epithets and hilarious expressions: Chief of Vice and Virtue Police!! Where is the headquarter located ? Is it another wing of Police department ? Do the policemen involved in this wing take bribe ? These questions have now filled my mind. I am anxious to more about this department!. Anyway, Vice and Virtue police is badly needed to manage the wannabe porn stars !!!

Superstar, Rock star and now Porn Star! Let’s see what other types of star hit our lives.

Rohit Mehra:

Well this is a very expected reaction from someone ( Jayanta Bhattacharya) who is obviously at loss of words to defend his previous remarks. Pity on people like you who are completely delusioned!!!!

Dharmendra Sharma:

The right and wrong depends upon the societal norms in which we live. In society of dogs, it may be acceptable.

Arvind K.Pandey:

In other words Dharmendraji the society of our times has subscribed itself to doggie values!!

We know very well why such news items get sensationalized!! How else Mallikas of newer types survive in ever changing skin business?

The media is rotten to the core. Nothing else remains to be said in this regard.

A Porn Star Is A Woman Of Substance?

Reference:

The Times Of India


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11 responses

  1. A conversation with a reader on Facebook:

    Deepak Sharma:

    Yes- ‘coz they are also human beings

    Arvind K Pandey:

    Well, she is of course not a criminal but I feel that on human grounds all criminals should never be punished !! After all, they are also human beings :-)

    Deepak Sharma :

    No, sir; leaving criminals, free- will lead to another crime

    Arvind K Pandey :

    The same judiciousness should be applied in case of porn stars as well!!!

    Deepak Sharma:

    No sir,both are differnt subjects, it depend on ,from which angle you are viewing

    Deepak Sharma:

    Porn star does not harm anyboady,

    Arvind K Pandey:

    Subjects different but how can judiciousness change its shades ??

    Deepak Sharma:

    Porn and crime may be related to each other-,but crime is a bigger aspect

    Arvind K Pandey:

    Then why do you keep porn stuff away from the reach of teens if porn star is human :-)

    Deepak Sharma:

    You are lawyer, u should understand that, crime is to harm a society or human beings, in one form or the other, by the deeds of a certain person,

    Deepak Sharma:

    Yes,as naturally, teens- we as a society think that a persons, adultnous, achieved when he reaches certain age,

    Deepak Sharma:

    Even you caanot go to school before 2.8yrs-, you cannot vote, before 18yrs, you cannot marry unless u are 21- their is a age factor

    Arvind K Pandey:

    And then how many of us considering her a human get married their human sons with that sort of human girl ? Answer it honestly.

    Deepak Sharma:

    Sir, it depends on the society they are living,

    Arvind K Pandey :

    True..It depends lot on values shared by that society..

  2. A message for Tanya Katoch who made her presence felt on this post:

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    Thanks Tanya …It’s still old tale …We are not ready to discuss some issues with open mind.. I had to leave one prominent forum when one of the journalists raised objection about it despite having no knowledge about the content of the article.

    I wonder for how long we will deny some of the emerging realities and avoid discussion on it in candid manner? Against this backdrop, it’s happy to find your presence here. As you know this article is merely assimilation of a previous discussion on it, I have avoided taking a fresh stand on it.

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  3. Sharing one message that I shared with my friend Baijnath Pandeyji:

    Thanks Baijnath Pandeyji…Really happy that, at least, you people found merit in this article . Or else, people who read only head line of the article and see only pics become suspicious about the content leading to unnecessary panic :-)

    For them I have to say this much only:
    Don’t judge a book by its cover :-)

  4. Another great exchange of words with a reader on Facebook:

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    Kunal Sethi, Social Activist,Rescue-Operator, says:

    ‎Arvind jI…I firmly agree wid u at dis point..!

    Actually…this is a clear indication of how our culture n values r gng down drastically…I blame d ppl of India first before Media n TV Channels…they just show us ol d stuff wotsoever We want to watch..nthng else….IF they r gaining good TRP by showing ol dis CRAP ..den why would dey nt invite such ‘so called Artists’ in their Programs ….!

    ***********************

    My response to Kunal Sethi:

    Thanks a lot for such a positive feedback … You might not be aware of the fact that many so called intellectuals who read the book only by it’s cover raised unnecessary panic.

    However, what makes me really happy is that like always I found support of really conscious people like you, who came to intercept the true purport of this write up.

    That’s exactly the message which I wished to communicate..Happy that you got it so right..

    ****************************

  5. Kunal Sethi:

    Ur welcome Arvind ji

    n U need nt mind on d stupid n cheap views of ol those ‘Morons’ who started panicking after reading dis post…In fact I blv dat one cant enjoy his article unless getting such ‘baseless criticism’ of these ppl :D:D rofl as it implies dat dey hav got frustrated after reading truth!!

    My response to Kunal:

    Thanks a lot for substantiating further my peace of mind with such a candid confession.. You would be glad to know that my long stint with writing world has taught me enough lessons as to how to handle such blockheads … I am not surprised at their reactions.. What really surprises me is that they are so confident about the authenticity of their worn out beliefs :-)

  6. My reply to the article on Times Of India- (summary)

    Sunney Leon has succeeded in earning a barrage of criticism from the True Indians, as well as, huge applause from the dirty hybrids, not because there is no porn industry in India, but because We Indians have a sense of dignity and respect for value ingrained within us right from the childhood. We know that there is a clear line separating human beings from animals who have no social sense. True, sex is a natural activity as well as physical necessity to some extent, But you can not display it in public like dogs. If living a life devoted solely to sex can be termed as dignified, a worm is much dignified than humans

    1. @Baijnath Pandeyji

      Thanks for spending few minutes on visiting the original page and leaving your precious comment here as well.
      I have already shared you view on my page so as to let the other visitors have a glimpse of the views exchanged on this post in the world of netizens.

      -Arvind K. Pandey

  7. Exchange of views with Baijnath Pandeyji, Associate Editor at InstaMedia.

    ********************************************

    Baijnath Pandey writes:

    My reply to the article on Times Of India- (summary)

    Sunney Leon has succeeded in earning a barrage of criticism from the True Indians, as well as, huge applause from the dirty hybrids, not because there is no porn industry in India, but because We Indians have a sense of dignity and respect for values ingrained within us right from the childhood. We know that there is a clear line separating human beings from animals who have no social sense. True, sex is a natural activity as well as physical necessity to some extent, But you can not display it in public like dogs. If living a life devoted solely to sex can be termed as dignified, a worm is a lot more dignified than a human being.

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    My response to Baijnathji:

    You are bang on the target.. Sadly, in our times worshiping false gods has become a sign of progressive mindset.. Likes of Mahesh Bhatt are always there to promote and glorify such vulgar bonhomie with extremism!!!

    It’s strange that at every important forums you will find them vomiting strange ideas not on par with set patterns of beliefs.

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  8. There are no titles like (porn star or king and queen ) on a new human entering earth until one of man formed cultures have through violence and wars done their molding of the new humans into what is needed or expected from the new humans to earth

    A species that will die out by not having the species couple has had nature come up with visual responses through chemical and electrical triggering that forces humans to react as nature needs and loose all common-seance in order to follow the need to find and be the next improvement in natures evolution of the perfect species

    The rule of thumb needed by natures that humans have a hard time with — humans have a difficult time killing beauty because it shoes health but easy time killing ugly because it shows failure in natures want of perfection

    Logic– over 3 billion woman in the world and the birth canal and feeders are all the same, as a rule ,but natures never allows males to be satisfied by just the sight of one

    Logic–there are over 3 billion males in the world and the male breeding parts are virtually the same but nature wants woman to be curious of all male’s genitally because woman as man want the best chance of having their gens grow to fruition

    The emotional species like the humans are, using emotion and not logic as their guide and is the best trick nature came up with to block humans logic and works flawlessly

    There can’t be any god, when a god can kill millions of ugly humans and then raise the fewer beautiful humans high on nature’s dispersal of life

    All humans coming to earth are equal and too bad that after man gets finished with the humans leaving earth ,the older humans can’t leave as equal as they were entering

  9. @JustMeAgain

    Thanks for making me know once again that it’s nature game plan to make humans trapped in emotions rather than logic.

  10. Jayanta Bhattacharya has apparently made it clear that for him ” a porn star is a woman of substance” as in a response to this article he said “Yes”

    My response for Jayanta:

    Thanks for making it known!!!!

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